Friday, 13 February 2026

it just fell into my chest

 A small white cloud, floating high above
contained a hundred trillion units of love
/Not normal love, but only the very best.
It fell from the sky and entered my chest 
 
After a while, the cloud decided to depart.
It had left all that love in my heart 
All this love is now flowing away
to whomever I meet, any day
 
And soon, from high above in the sky 
another small cloud will float by.
The tonnes of love it carries within
'll fall into my chest, filling my heart again 

 

Thursday, 12 February 2026

To be, do, have

Let us consider for a short while the order of the things in our life.
1.We do things in order 
2. to have more and if we have more we expect to 
3. be happy
This leads to the belief, the more we do, the faster we will have enough to be happy.
 
The other day, I encountered a man proposing a different approach:
1. First choose to be happy
2. Then in this happy mood do the things that need to be done
3 The things we want to have, will flow to us if we do things in a wonderful way.
BE first!
 
May seem a bit wishy-washy, but I if we give it some deep thought, it may be worth to consider. 
Choosing to be happy is the thing that makes us  a bit uncomfortable. If we can easily choose to be happy, why so few us make that choice and how to make the choice and be effectively happy?
 
The two key elements of a choice to be happy lie in choosing gratitude and forgiveness
If we manage to look for the peaceful, beautiful, kind and creative things in our life, it will be easy to experience a grateful heart. If on top of that we throw away the long term grudges against people who were imperfect human beings just like all of us, we will be able to choose effectively a happy mood. 
 
Then do the things in a state of flow with great imagination and a happy mood and the rewards in terms of more happiness and even material wealth will freely flow...  
 
 

 

 

Sunday, 8 February 2026

Big purpose, several obstacles

 If we "fight" for a big wonderful purpose, like quality early education for all children including the less gifted ones, it requires a lot of energy and commitment.


Along the way, there will be always mistakes, challenges, small lost battles, that may appear as  big obstacles.

These mistakes may smell like cow dung. The best way to deal with them is to avoid keeping stirring them. 

Leave them to settle and they, just like cow dung, may become fertilizers for something more beautiful, to make our original  purpose stronger. The main thing is to be able to learn the valuable lessons they often contain and then  leave them behind as soon as possible and resume the focus on our big wonderful aim!

Wednesday, 28 January 2026

Let's come back to our senses

 Recently, it looks like our society is becoming slowly victim of the blind greed of influencers playing mercilessly with the feelings of all layers of society to highlight incidents happening in service institutions and vilifying institutions providing high levels of service.

Many institutions provide heartfelt and wonderful services to thousands, or tens of thousands of people needing those services. All services are provided by human beings and even the most dedicated and most well meaning human beings are not perfect. It would be nice to have all services like child care, playschools, medical care and even transportation services to have zero incidents, but that is clearly impossible.

We rely on committed humans to provide services of child care in numerous well-run organizations. Lately one of the well-managed child care centers has been the target of an unscrupulous social media influencer. These influencers portray the role of helping the "poor victims" of dedicated service providers. 

 If we, as a society allow these unscrupulous seekers of influence and attention to sweep up feelings of our society against established solid institutions of care service, leading to excessive litigation, we may well end up in the dire situation of so-called advanced societies where basic service become unaffordable or simply not available. For anyone following what is happening to health care in the UK, it  is heart breaking to see how one of the formerly best systems of service has suffered extremely under the threat of continuous excessive litigation and has become a bad of example of how health care should not be 

I have worked personally in a major hospital in Malaysia. Whenever humans, no matter how dedicated and experienced, are working for the good of their patients/clients, errors do happen. We are humans and not a single human is perfect. People serving thousands of needy others in excellent ways, should not suffer excessive litigation for the one human error they unwillingly make. To err is human and if our service providers are systematically vilified based on that intrinsic human trait of imperfection we may end up in situations like the US or the UK where services are slowly but certainly becoming increasingly unavailable or unaffordable. 

Airlines operate at the highest possible standards, but does any well-run airline have zero incidents? NO! Do they deserve vilification and boycotting of their services based on the rare incidents that do happen?NO! If we become as intolerant as materialistically driven societies in some Western nations, we may end up as them with unaffordable and worse,  unavailable service. 

Let us not give too much attention to unscrupulous influencers who are out there, hungry for fame, recognition and certainly some of them just want wealth, through exploitation of human suffering and vilification of service providers who are often dedicated but who are human and inherently to human nature, are not perfect 

 Let us come to our senses. Let us reject the model dominating many formerly advanced nations (now rapidly receding); let is reject the model of hatred, intolerance, grudges, greed, all leading to crumbling and the downfall of useful and necessary services

Let's all walk on the path of our Creator, paved with peace, beauty, love, grace, gratefulness and forgiveness.

 

Saturday, 24 January 2026

Not Easy

 It is not easy 
to remain kind to people at all times
even if they have done nasty things to us
but it is the way of our Creator, the way of the Universe
 
It is not easy sometimes to forgive ourselves
it is not easy to forgive the jealous people trying to harm us
but it is the way of our Creator, the way of the universe
 
It is not easy to be grateful for the small nice things in our lives
when we are the in the midst of a a chaotic challenge
but it is the way the of our Creator, the way of the Universe
 
If we manage to choose the way of our Creator
or if you do not believe in a Creator, the way of the universe,
we will be on that path paved with peace, beauty and love
and the chaos will settle faster than ever imagined possible